bulky

on tuesday morning i got out my note pad which had been partnered up at the bar with my gal pal and and i to re-read some of the snippets of the previous night’s convos. if some of you are not narcissistic enough to have done this yet, i highly suggest it.

my eyes settled on this one: “the only thing you should buy in bulk is peanut butter.”  hmmm when taken out of context it actually sounds like good advice. i can assure you that during the actual conversation, it was not.

nevertheless, i put that on my to-do list for the week and little lady and i stopped into Krema today for an out-of-this-world peanut butter and strawberry jam sammich and our bulk butter.

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in case you missed that it says 5 LBS! 5 lbs of natural peanut butter goodness and it’s all mine….i mean ours. i guess i could spare a pound.

i’m pretty happy about the idea of getting this little guy in bulk and not dealing with at least 7 little jars it would take to equal it. can i count this as a zero-wasting-the-home effort?

welcome to the good life where the peanut butter flows like mead. now i wish we had 5 lbs of mead.

oh and by the way, peanut butter paired with grape jelly is total bullshit. peanut butter paired with strawberry jam is, well, the JAM. never. looking. back.

at the wheel

luckily we had classes all morning to take my mind off of our pesky house guests. darla started pottery last week. she’s WAY into it so far. and i’ve made the mistake of not putting her in pottery appropriate attire two weeks in a row. sigh.

here she is at the wheel:

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frankie says relax

darla in my shirt yesterday morning

it’s just that i’m having a hard time relaxing these days because our house is apparently the place all the cool snakes hang out. yeah that’s what i said, SNAKES. out in the yard and today i found one in the basement. yuck.

so, i’m not the “wow, snakes are really cool and interesting” type of person. i’m more of a “whatever side of the brain that controls rational thought shuts off and i just stand and scream” kinda person. they are harmless garter snakes and while I KNOW they are harmless i still cannot help but hyperventilate every time i see one. i’m serious.

while i am in theory ok with sharing the space with these creatures, i simply cannot have myself going all vasovagal in front of my three-year-old everyday.

a friend and i were discussing their increased presence this past week. they seem to be everywhere. i’m seeing tons of status updates on facers. we thought, could this be a sign from the Mayans?

so i looked it up and turns out the snake is a goddess sign for fertility and midwifery. so that is helping me a little. maybe i’ll just imagine the next little ladysnake i see as a midwife from a prior century and it’ll take the edge off. i doubt it though.

let’s just hope that whatever the landlord and the exterminator posse are coming to do tomorrow works.

Ornamental Things

i’m trying not to be too much of a shopper these days but one of my favorite little jewelry sites, Ornamental Things, is having their annual birthday sale – 30 to 40 percent off – and i thought i would share. i’ve bought something from their booth two years in a row at pitchfork and they continue to be some of my most worn pieces of jewelry. good quality and fun, quirky designs.

here are some of my picks:

birdcage silhouette

compass necklace

art deco shield earrings

aaaannnddd here’s what i got. something cute for everyday wear.

what’d you get?

weekending

the majority of our weekend was just some one on one time. that’s ok because we did lots of gnarly adventures, mainly breaking in Madame RuJu. here’s some of it:

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using the swings in new ways

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running to dinner in a light shower and entertaining other patrons with a costumed dance number

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“planting” flowers at the park for her grandmas

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climbing rocks and taking hikes

now, our biggest victory of the weekend was discovering an amazing bakery by our house. it’s so amazing that i am going to be selfish and not reveal the name or location. ok, i won’t do that. we stopped into the french loaf for the first time and WOW. just wow. go there. you’ll see what i mean.

darla testing the product

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and getting down to business

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loved the real china plates and cute stamped furniture

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Pit is the Pits

if you are giving birth in america then it’s most likely your birth will be attended by your obstetrician. if you have an OB attending your birth then somewhere the word “induction” is floating around out there as a possibility because most OBs are not comfortable with a woman carrying her child past 42 weeks of pregnancy.

here’s when i’m going to have to use the P word: an induction most often means using Pitocin (or Pit in L&D lingo) to start the uterus contracting. i found some information about pitocin that i thought would be useful to share. if so many of us are facing an induced birth then it wouldn’t hurt to know a little more about this drug. here’s a cut and paste of the article:

The numbers of inductions of labor using artificial means like Pitocin and other medications has gone up dramatically in the last few years. A hospital in my area says that 90% of the women have their labors induced. Since science shows us that inducing labor can increase the numbers of complications in the labor and with the baby, you might be surprised to note that many of the inductions are not for medical reasons, but rather reasons of convenience, practitioner or mother, known as social induction.

 

One of the things that women tell me is that they are lead to believe that induction is completely safe and relatively easy, after all, Pitocin is just another form of the body’s own oxytocin, right?

While this statement is generally true, artificially created hormones, including Pitocin do not act identically to the hormones in ones body. For example, in pregnancy both the mother and the baby produce oxytocin. The oxytocin produced by each reacts differently in the body because they each have separate jobs.

Here are five things that you may not know about Pitocin and how it can effect your labor:

 

  • Pitocin is released differently.
    Oxytocin is released into your body in a pulsing action. It comes intermittently to allow your body a break. Pitocin is given in an IV in a continuous manner. This can cause contractions to be longer and stronger than your baby or placenta can handle, depriving your baby of oxygen.
  • Pitocin prevents your body from offering endorphins.
    When you are in labor naturally, your body responds to the contractions and oxytocin with the release of endorphins, a morphine like substance that helps prevent and counteract pain. When you receive Pitocin, your body does not know to release the endorphins, despite the fact that you are in pain.
  • Pitocin isn’t as effective at dilating the cervix.
    When the baby releases oxytocin it works really well on the uterine muscle, causing the cervix to dilate. Pitocin works much more slowly and with less effect, meaning it takes more Pitocin to work.
  • Pitocin lacks a peak at birth.
    In natural labor, the body provides a spike in oxytocin at the birth, stimulating the fetal ejection reflex, allowing for a faster and easier birth. Pitocin is regulated by a pump and not able to offer this boost at the end.
  • Pitocin can interfere with bonding.
    When the body releases oxytocin, also known as the love hormone, it promotes bonding with the baby after birth. Pitocin interferes with the internal release of oxytocin, which can disturb the bonding process.

Your body’s own natural oxytocin is superior in many ways to Pitocin. There are also ways to increase the release of this natural oxytocin including skin-to-skin contact, lovemaking, breastfeeding, and others.

So, if you are presented with the option of an induction of labor, you might want to ask your provider about whether or not it is being done for a medical reason or if it’s something that a bit of time and patience will help alleviate.

 

original article found here with source information.

i love the last sentence of that article. i had pitocin when darla was born and if i had known more about it then i probably would have asserted myself to wait a little longer to see if contractions would start on their own. i hope this helps to start any of you expectant readers to do more questioning, discussing and informed decision making based on your own birth philosophies.

Project Iron Thighz

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weekly tally:

4/25 – 1 mile

4/26 – 1 mile

4/28 – 1 mile

4/29 – 5.3 miles

grand total = 8.3 miles

not bad for the first week. hopefully the weather will cooperate more this next se’night. our ride home from the gym yesterday was in the rain. no biggie fries, though. it’s only a .5 mi from our homestead.

i did the math and figured out it will take me 3,200 miles to ride back the bike if i average gas to be $3.75 a gallon. bahahaha. how many years will that take? at least 8.3 is a start.

also, darla has now requested that her bike be called Ruby Juice too. I can’t decide on RuJu Too, RuJu Two, or RuJuTooTwo. i kinda like the last one. what do you think?

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lastly, a pic of darla waiting for RuJu to be delivered in our bike trailer with my old not-creepy-at-all hug-a-bunch doll.

happy riding.

Darla Draws

we picked up monsters, inc. at the library this week.

darla said she wanted to draw pictures of the monsters like boo does, so we did.

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that’s her rendering of mike and randall. i did the inside of mike’s eye but little one did all the rest.

i’m surprised b/c most of the time when we draw darla just wants to do scribbles or a series of straight lines, which is fine, but i didn’t really know until yesterday that she did have ideas of anatomically correct placement of limbs and facial spacial relations.

i guess i’m just going to have to remember that this girl gets inspiration from monsters, ghosts and cavities. asking her to draw me a mermaid, flower garden or fairies will produce just a bunch of scribbles.

Ruby Juice

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hello everyone, meet Ruby Juice. she’s our newest and shiniest member of the family. why Ruby Juice? well, because i tried to name her Ruby Mae and Darla said “NO! Ruby Juice” but she said it with a really drawn out middle i.e. juuuuuuiiiiiiiiice. so Ruby Juice she is and just now while typing it i’ve decided to make it a compound word such as Beetlejuice. RubyJuice.

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so, since i splurged on RuJu i’ve decided it’s necessary to ride her as much as possible. i’ll be keeping a weekly log of how many miles we ride to see how long it takes us to ride back the cost of her. i’m hoping to save lots of gallons of gas this summer + fall. yay environment! Let project Iron Thighz commence!

yeah, that’s what i’m calling this – Project Iron Thighz.