in honor of indiana autumn

we’ve been reading spooky books and poems by candlelight. i thought i’d share my favorite fall poem, by james whitcomb riley, with everyone before we take off for hoosier heartland.

WHEN THE FROST IS ON THE PUNKIN

When the frost is on the punkin and the fodder’s in the shock,
And you hear the kyouck and the gobble of the struttin’ turkey-cock,
And the clackin’; of the guineys and the cluckin’ of the hens
And the rooster’s hallylooyer as he tiptoes on the fence;
O it’s then the times a feller is a-feelin’ at his best,
With the risin’ sun to greet him from a night of peaceful rest,
As he leaves the house, bareheaded, and goes out to feed the stock,
When the frost is on the punkin and the fodder’s in the shock

They’s somethin kindo’ harty-like about the atmusfere
When the heat of summer’s over and the coolin’ fall is here –
Of course we miss the flowers, and the blossums on the trees
And the mumble of the hummin’-birds and buzzin’ of the bees;
But the air’s so appetizin’; and the landscape through the haze
Of a crisp and sunny monring of the airly autumn days
Is a pictur’ that no painter has the colorin’ to mock –
When the frost is on the punkin and fodder’s in the shock.

The husky, rusty russel of the tossels of the corn,
And the raspin’ of the tangled leaves, as golden as the morn;
The stubble in the furries – kindo’ lonesome-like, but still
A preachin’ sermons to us of the barns they growed to fill;
The strawstack in the medder, and the reaper in the shed;
The hosses in theyr stalls below – the clover overhead! –
O, it sets my hart a-clickin’ like the tickin’ of a clock,
When the frost is on the punkin and the fodder’s in the shock!

Then your apples all is gethered, and the ones a feller keeps
Is poured around the celler-floor in red and yeller heaps;
And your cider-makin’s over, and your wimmern-folks is through
With their mince and apple-butter, and theyr souse and saussage, too!
I don’t know how to tell it – but if sich a thing could be
As the Angels wantin’ boardin’, and they’d call around on me –
I’d want to ‘commodate ’em – all the whole-indurin’ flock –
When the frost is on the punkin and the fodder’s in the shock!

birthdays abound

our best little dude friend and our favorite cousin/niece* share a birthday week so it really just bums darla out that she has to attend two birthday parties on one day every year. sarcasm! i use it!

yesterday was filled with lots of excitement and lovely treats and refreshments from two very well put together and thoughtful parties. also, the weather couldn’t have been better considering it’s been a little on the damp side in ohio lately. here’s what i captured of kiddos enjoying the revelry.

1.being the center of attention is a bit overwhelming 2. sesame street cookiesshe be climbing things e’rywherewhere’s the birthday girl? there she is!

you, umm, on your face…you got some on your face. blue. you got blue on your face.

present time. not as in “right now” but as in the gift unwrapping sense of the term. most parent approved gift

“first, i say we hang ‘im.

then we smash ‘im. then we stomp ‘im. then we kill ‘im!”

double fisting

our favorite dude

decorating pumpkins

CAKE. CANDY. CAKE. JUICE. CANDY. CANDY. CAAAAAAAKE!!!!

*this is to mean darla’s cousin and my niece. not that she is a cousin niece all in one package. that would be off and i don’t know how that is even possible. i’ll ask kentucky.

let’s reminisce. shall we?

approximately a year ago, my lovely, talented long time friend and indianapolis based photographer, jamie wolma, turned her lens on my little girl. let’s look back a year, hmmm?

because i love both versions

now two things are coming to mind. the first being that i need to again thank my mother for setting up the shoot with jamie. second, i need to schedule a follow up shoot with jamie to document the growth this little bean sprout has done this past year. maybe a whole new tutu will be involved….

ok, a third thought is floating to the surface. right after this shoot mike and i headed to bloomington to join up with my cousin and saw a raucous GBV show at the bluebird. we also had an extremely delicious meal at FARM. ’twas a good night. october 2010 was a banner month. really. just the best.

thanks parental units

these are my wonderful parents. a year ago they were watching darla while mike and i honeymooned in salt lake city. now they are watching her again for me so i can take a mommy time out with friends in la la land. thank you so much parents. i love you!

ps. this pic is from a session by my friend jamie last october. i’ll be posting some more from this sesh soon as a “look back” post.

wuv. true wuv. part 3.

and now it’s time to party…

well that’s it. when i look back over these pictures i can’t believe it was a year ago, today. it seems simultaneously so long ago but just yesterday. what i really can’t believe is how this wedding was ever pulled off and how it came together as lovely as it did. i was an organizational mess! i didn’t give anyone any direction. i’m astounded at how lovely our photos are when i didn’t really give mary catherine any direction or input or anything! you’ll notice we don’t have any organized photos of family and barely any of the bridal party. i’m very sorry. i wish i could have been a little more organized but there’s nothing i can do about it now. i wish we could throw a wedding every year and get to do all the details over again.

i want to say a big thank you to my parents, mike’s parents and our wedding party for all the work and thought they put into our big day. we are so grateful for everything you put together for us on our wedding weekend. james crothers, if you’re reading this then please know that i’ve cried like TWICE in the past coupla weeks thinking about the fact that you performed our ceremony.

i feel so incredibly fortunate. that’s what that day instilled in me. the blessings and fortunes of this small life i lead. my husband and daughter are my world and it was an honor to share that with everyone for one day. i honestly feel so lucky that darla got to witness mike and i being wed. more than witness, she was really the star of the show. just like in our life. sharing this day with everyone was very important to mike and i. in my heart, i’ve been married to mike since July 5, 2007. to me, the day wasn’t about binding ourselves to one another and “from this day forward” vows because that had been done long before. our wedding was about bringing others into the love that we have for each other. i think that was accomplished.

to mike, i can’t put into words what you already know. i can’t say anything that will do it justice. i love you. elephant shoes and olive juice. happy anniversary.

wuv. true wuv. part 1.

a year ago i was a bundle of nerves and excitement and feeling extremely overwhelmed. a year ago i was practically swimming in love and well wishes from friends and family that had come from all over the country. a year ago this weekend i was having the best time of my entire life. a year ago….i was probably drunk already. just keeping it honest.

here’s some of my fave pics of the weekend. there are so many we’ll just have to make this a 3 part post.

all photos are the talent of mary catherine hamelin