stocking stuffers

darla’s been into stamping lately so i decided quirky little stamps would be a good stuffer this year. etsy is of course my go to place but i’ll still need to see what i can find when i hit up the craft shop. i found this cuuuuute little set on JFlairHomestyles etsy. i thought the prices were pretty reasonable given then number of pieces in each set and quality. now i’m in search of some fun inks. shopping. weeeee!

Source: etsy.com via Elaine on Pinterest

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here’s a pic of the sheep coat. ta-da!!!

it’s quite warm. i purchased this woolly number in wilmington, north carolina, which was climatologically odd, but it was love at first sight. the shop, edge of urge, had a tantalizingly unique shoe collection. they seemed to have every jeffrey campbell shoe available in stock. i also obsessed over their melissa shoes for about 4 days but got over it because i couldn’t rationalize spending 80 bucks on a pair of jellies. i bought some jessica simpson platforms instead and all has been well since.

well……except for the time that i wore those platforms to walk darla and my cousin downtown and to the park and it was all a disaster and i don’t know why i thought wearing platforms to a park was a good idea… the jelly flats probably would have been better in that scenario.

hmmmm. what else?

because i’m in a sharing mood

here’s the girl’s excitement when we give her a tic tac. sometimes she’s easy to please.

that’s all. bye!

*btw, PETA, i think it’s fake fur so don’t come after me with paint. thanks a mil.

saint nicholas feast day

we celebrated the feast day of saint nicholas with darla for the first time yesterday. it’s time for a little history lesson:

most of us 80s babies have been so far removed from the history of christmas that a lot of people don’t know that santa claus and many of our christmas traditions stem from a third century benefactor hailing from what is now modern day turkey. i found this website today and i have to say i’m digging the art by elizabeth jvanovsky.

to make a long story short, most countries celebrate the gift giving of st. nicholas on december 6th unlike in the u.s. where we simulate it on december 25th. the most common practice is for children to leave their shoes out for st. nicholas to stow treats and treasures inside.

this was always one of my favorite christmastime traditions in our household. my mother had little shoes from the netherlands that she would put out for me and i was always so excited to see what i would find the next morning. i think i was even more excited than christmas morning. well, probs not but st nic’s day always felt like a BONUS. i usually would have some candy, money and my commemorative christmas tree ornament for the year.

we’re not raising darla to be any specific religion but i thought keeping this little tradition in the mix was essential. i think the spirit of generosity was conveyed to me much more for st. nic’s feast day than christmas morning. i hope we’ll be able to teach darla the history behind the gift giving season and not just shoot her up with consumerism that is inescapable, even for myself.

anyway, i’d highly suggest adding st. nicholas feast day to your christmas traditions if you want to give a little extra push on the emphasis of charity and goodwill toward all. here’s darla’s feast day festivities:

darla received a pair of new toms from st. nicholas and a coordinating pair of socks. green corduroy with orange soles!!! ahhh they are too cute for words. there’s plenty of room to grow so i’m hoping we’ll get lots of use out of them to make the price sticker worth it. but i think it’s appropriate that st. nic brought her toms since a pair of shoes is donated to a child in need everytime a pair is purchased. st. nic would approve of that business model. maybe he’ll bring her a pair every year. also, the toms sticker is already on her bike helmet. BONUS.

i’m trying to get her a book every year to augment the collection passed down from my parents. Eloise at Christmastime was the only suitable option for this girl. she really, truly admires eloise and i think she and the little Plaza dweller have a lot in common. thanks again to fraunty amanda for introducing us to the world of Eloise.

we rounded it out with The Muppets Christmas Carol. this is my favorite version of the christmas carol. it is really just superb and does a great job following the verbage used by dickens. I admit this gift was really for me.

 so far everything was a success. we read eloise, we watched our movie and she wore her new shoes all day. i’m thinking this girl will like st. nic’s feast day every year, too.

if you’re interested you can find these items for your household here:

the muppets christmas carol
eloise at christmastime
toms toddler

black friday shopping list

uhhh this list is for me. did you expect me to focus on purchases for anyone else. hello. selfish. again.

well this would be like my dream list. if santa is reading…which i’m sure he is b/c he’s still on vacay…then maybe he’d like to follow some of these links. mmmkay.

1. ok. i love my cowgirl boots but i am dying over these. thankfully they’re overseas so i can’t get my hands on them with out traveling to amsterdam. checkout all the pretty designs at kiboots.com

2. a trip to amsterdam

3. i blogged about these flasks already but i’m still in love with this guy. please?

4. a trip to paris

5. and on the same vein. i’d like versailles. not a trip there. i want the freaking palace. ok. maybe just my own copy of Marie Antoinette.

6. lolita lempicka lolita Lolita Lempicka Lolita Lempicka lolita lempicka lolita lempicka. just fun to say!

7. the wonder years dvds: Wonder Years: The Best of

8. Le Creuset Enameled Cast-Iron 3-1/2-Quart Round French Oven, Red so i will have no excuses left for not baking my own bread

9. this macbook cover from timberlineltd on etsy

that’s all for me. have fun dreaming of all the lovely things headed your way.

‘Round this time every night

every day is an optimistic round of promises I make to myself about the mountains of accomplishments I will ascend when the bambino has finally spun herself into the sleeplike trance of the whirling dervish.

but do you know what happens to me? every damn night. that little she-devil sucks the energy out of me with her bedtime routine. i leave her room feeling as a civil war general stepping off the field, uncertain if this battle has been a victory or a defeat. i stumble into my bedroom and look at the opened email inbox and the list of phone calls to be made and i just give everyone the virtual finger by trolling shopping websites and deleting my babygap.com emails. sorry y’all but that’s why you haven’t heard back from me.

Um, i can still shop in the Juniors’ section, right? hmm……

before you get up on your judgment horse, cowboy, let me state that; YES, i do love my daughter and YES, i did just call her a she-devil but NO, i didn’t actually mean it. it’s wit i am using to boost my readership or something. i just want to remind everyone that I do 100% of the parenting while mike is gone for 3 months and i get a little frazzled. i mean, she’s been sleeping for like 2 1/2 years now so it’s not like it should still be a big SHOCK to her that she has to go to bed at the same time every night. Ugh.

here’s what I tell myself to get through it: 1 – The parts of her personality that make bedtime so difficult will be such good character traits when she is older. just get through it now without squashing those traits. 2 – some of our best connections have been at bedtime. It seems to be another one of those *magical* times of the day and I have to try to make the most out of them even when i’m basically brain dead.

well i have to go now and get back to ignoring all of yins. in summation i quoth myself & cousin in conversation last night: “There are only two forces in life that cannot be reckoned with – Time and J. Crews’ ridiculously discounted sales emails.”